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Jul
2008

vlogAges ago I talked about the possibility of me working on some video blogs (vlogs), but it ended up never happening until this week.

The original project ended up never happening, but I ended up doing one episode for Mashable’s new video series, Mashable Conversations, a few weeks ago.  After a few false starts, this has now morphed into a daily video cast co-hosted by Mark “Rizzn” Hopkins and myself.

Our first episode went up on July 2nd, and features Mark and I discussing the current blogosphere thoughts on Digg, followed by an interview with guitarist Ryan Newell from the band Sister Hazel about his involvement with iVideoSongs.  Most episodes will follow the format of Mark and I discussing a topic of the day, followed up with an interview with someone from the web 2.0 space.

The second episode is out now where Mark and I discuss domain name changes (well… only Mark was on the video for that part as I messed up my recording) with Rob Johnson of EventVue, and then followed up with a discussion of what his company is about.  (I liked the concept a lot… as I said numerous times on and off cam)

There is a definite learning curve to being on cam when the only person you see is yourself, and you have to ask yourself questions such as, “Have I nodded enough?”,  “Why am I smirking?”, “I shouldn’t have had those beans for lunch…”.  I think I’m getting more comfortable with each recording session, and since I have several more weeks of episodes to do under the current promotion, hopefully it will get better with each one.

I’ve embedded the first episode below for you all to check out, feel free to give me comments and feedback on it!  Just try not to rip me apart…

2
Jul
2008

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1
Jul
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Movies, TV  |  No Comments

don s davisDon S. Davis was another one of those actors that you would see in a television show or movie and go, “Oh, look, it’s that guy!”  He sadly passed away on June 29th, 2008 of a massive heart attack.

According to IMDB, his first part was on Joanie Loves Chachi, and he worked steadily after that, racking up 135 credits.  The first time I vividly remember him was as Major Garland Briggs on Twin Peaks, then he appeared as Captain William Scully (Dana Scully’s father) on X-Files and of course the 160 episodes of Stargate SG-1 where he played Major General George Hammond.  I often joked with my parents that I thought he had gone out and bought his own Air Force uniform, and that’s how he kept getting cast as officers.

I wasn’t even aware until I was writing this that he was also an artist working with paintings, sculptures, carvings and more.  You can see his work on his gallery site.

He may seem an odd choice for me to write up, considering I usually stick to people like George Carlin and Stan Winston, but I think actors like Mr. Davis never get the credit they are due.  They are never the big flashy ones that you see on the covers of magazines in the check out aisle.  They aren’t taking home the enermous pay checks that equal the GDP of some small countries.  They are the actors who go to work every day to a set for long tedious hours because it’s a job they love.  He was a character actor, and he always brought a lot of color to the project he was working on.

I, for one, will miss him.  R.I.P. Mr. Davis.

30
Jun
2008

crying kidIt seems in Sweden you aren’t allowed to dislike any one for any reason, and if you do, someone will cry to the government about it.

Duncan Riley at The Inquisitr wrote up a story this weekend that is just jaw dropping in its oddness.  It seems that an 8-year-old in Sweden has set off a firestorm of controversy over his not inviting two of the kids in his class to his birthday party, while inviting the rest of the class.  The two kids were left out due to one not inviting the original boy to his birthday party, and the other because they had a falling out.

When the teacher saw that two students had been left out, she confiscated all of the invitations and informed him that since he did it during class time, it fell under Sweden’s non-discrimination laws.  According to the original BBC story, when the birthday boy’s father learned of this, he filed a complaint with the parliamentary ombudsman for a ruling, and that is expected to be handed down by September.

I can see where perhaps handing out the invitations during school was a poor choice, but what do you expect from an 8-year-old?  As for it being an act of discrimination, let’s look at the Dictionary.com definition of discrimination:

1. an act or instance of discriminating.
2. treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: racial and religious intolerance and discrimination.
3. the power of making fine distinctions; discriminating judgment: She chose the colors with great discrimination.
4. Archaic. something that serves to differentiate.

Okay, yes, they did belong to a class you could say: Kids This Other Kid Hates.  Again, I can see where it would have been better not to have been done in class, because I’m sure those two kids felt bad not getting invitations, but I think the teacher’s explanation was a bit much that this incident fell under this law.  How do they handle round robin picking of teams in gym class there?  “Okay, you can’t pick any one last because that would be discrimination, so whomever you were going to pick last, pick them first… wait that won’t work either… could someone call parliment to see how we should handle this?”

That is the other thing that amazes me about this whole incident: the parliament is actually going to rule in this. Why didn’t they say, “You know, this is silly, sort it out for yourselves at the school level.” No, the parliament of Sweden is going to actually rule in what boils down to who a child can and can not invite to their birthday party. I think Mr. Riley may have said it best in his article, “We now crown Sweden as the winner of the ultimate nanny state award for 2008…and possibly all time.”

29
Jun
2008

apple logoWho are these analysts, and how do I get their sweet job?

Craig Berger at FBR Research has issued a report that he expects an iPod line refresh in the near future, especially on the iPod Classic and on the iPod Touch.  This is something akin to saying, “the sun will rise in the east tomorrow.”

According to my records, for the past two years the iPods have been updated on September 12th, 2006 and September 5th, 2007.  Gee… any one thinking September again?  Maybe that’s just me.  Steve Jobs, the CEO of Apple, likes to do it then because then it gives time to ramp up for the holiday sales.  Well, okay, that’s my “analysis” of why he does it then.

For years now, I’ve been hearing these proclamations from “analysts” about new Apple products coming down the road.  “They’ll update the MacBook Pros this year.” er… Yeah, they will, what’s your point?  “The iPods will be getting a line refresh soon.”  Yes, they will… and the Earth will continue to rotate.  What I found amusing, and shows that they truly are guessing, is how many times they have predicted the death of the Mac Mini.

mac miniPretty much every time an Apple event comes around, someone will say, “Well, they’re going to kill off the Mac Mini this time, and replace it with such-and-such.”  Take this post from AppleInsider on May 24th, 2007 as an example.

Ladies and gentlemen, AppleInsider believes in all sincerity that the Mac mini is dead.

True, this is an Apple blog I am quoting here, but it is just one of many examples of people thinking the Mini was dying off.  Well, funny, the Mac Mini is still here, and has even been updated in the past year.  It may very well die off, most products usually do, but it is still here, and analysts keep saying it’s doomed.  Doesn’t this tell us something about the value of their “analysis”?

Essentially analysts are doing nothing more than making educated guesses, and yet people act like it’s some sort of message from on high.  Mr. Berger’s report is burning a path across the blogosphere with people reporting on it, and I just have to scratch my head.  We all know the iPods will be updated, it’s a given, so why give so much free publicity to some guy stating the obvious?

To be honest, I think it’s a little disingenuous on the part of the analysts who make these types of predictions about Apple.  It’s almost as if they take a look at the clock on a Friday, and say to themselves, “ugh… I didn’t get any predictions out this week, I need to get an easy one out… new iPods are coming!  Brilliant… let’s go hit the bar!”  It’s a softball prediction, there’s no risk in it, and yet they are able to spin it into coverage all over the Internet because it’s about Apple.  Sure, it’s their job to make predictions, and maybe they should be thankful there is the occasional no-brainer such as this one, but it just comes across silly when it makes it out to the general public.

In short, yes, new iPods are coming, and trees will continue to produce oxygen.

28
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Work  |  6 Comments

eyebrow typingOn Saturdays and Sundays I put in 8 hours each day with Mashable, working on my lists for the coming week.  Since my lists are rarely time sensitive, this works out great, except for one small problem.  Have you ever tried working from home?

I admit I break the golden rule of home working in that I don’t set up a designated work area free of distractions.  I could if I really wanted to, but I used to do that here, and I don’t miss it.  It is also in a part of the house the dogs aren’t allowed in to, and I don’t want to lock them up while I go work.

However, it’s not the distractions that get me, it is the mad urge to take a nap.  It probably doesn’t help matters that I typically sit in “the comfy chair” with a warm laptop in my lap all day, because warmth is something that will put me to sleep in a nanosecond.    The thing is, I love my chair, and it really is the only chair in the house I’m comfortable in.  I’ve tried sitting in hard wooden chair when writing, and all that did was make my butt numb for an entire day.

So, how do I fight the napping urge to get my work done?  Coffee… copious amounts of coffee.  I try to get up and walk around every hour or two just to get the blood flowing.  Even with that, there are times when I’ve woken up to a depressed key and a seemingly endless row of a letter as I pressed a key in my sleep.

While I prefer working home just for comfort and ease, it’s not always the easiest thing in the world when it comes to self discipline.  What do all you readers out there do to make sure you are productive when working from home?

27
Jun
2008

ICANNThe Internet Corporation for Assigned Names and Numbers (ICANN) group, the people responsible for regulating the rules of domain names, passed a new measure today that could either be the greatest idea ever, or the worst.

According to Times Online, people will be able to purchase pretty much any top level domain they can think of, so instead of seeing .com, you might see something like .apple or .microsoft.  This is only going to be for big corporations, though as prices will start at $100,000.  So, lets say I bought .seanpaune, and then sold the right for people to buy domains on it just like you do a .com now, those are the type of people they are looking at.

My problem with this is that up until now I knew if I needed to go to a website, all I really needed to was remember the first part of the domain name.  So long as I remembered that part, I knew the last part had to be .com, .net, .org and so on, but now I will have to remember everything.  I know this doesn’t sound major, but lets say I’m driving down a highway, and I see a billboard for a company that I am interested in.  Instead of just having to remember one word, now I also have to remember the extension, and that may not be easy while going 65 mph.

The only big success story I can think of using one of the off-shoot extensions already is Del.icio.us.  They hit on a beautiful idea by using the underused .us extension, but how many times are you going to see something like that under this new scheme?  Sure some people will try it, but most of those styles of extensions will only be good for a limited number of domains, and the person will have trouble recouping thier $100,000 investment.

domain confusionIt is obvious that ICANN is doing this to make more money, but I feel they have done a horrible disservice to the Internet at large with this decision.  Yes, all the good .com names are gone, but such is life, and this will only lead to a rash ever increasingly confabulated names and user confusion.  This will only serve to confuse the Web at large and possibly frustrate people to the point of not even wanting to bother with it.

Then comes the idea of how fast do you think people will rush for things like .sex, .porn and any other number of popular Internet activities such as .betting and so on.  This will also cause a problem for small companies that could easily see their name snapped up as an extension because they can’t afford a $100,000 price tag, and even in just the scenario of needing to buy thier addresses with yet another extension.  I already have several misspellings of my main domain names locked down, now I will have to worry about a possible endless wellspring of new domain extensions I may need to snap up also to protect my company name?

The better idea would have been to release a few new extensions a year, but now we will just see a flood of bizarre names, people investing in extensions and domains that will do them no good and users that are just fed up. Good job, ICANN.

27
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Blogging  |  4 Comments

I hope you all like it, because it’s here to stay for a while!  I’ll be adding little tweaks, and please let me know if you run in to any bugs/problems, but I think we got those all worked out last night.

safari searchJust as an amusig aside, I couldn’t believe how different browsers did different things to the page.  As an example, this image of the search bar shows the magnifying glass out of alignment with the rest of the line.  This problem only showed up in Safari, but not in Firefox, Flock, Internet Explorer or Opera.  It has now been fixed, but what an odd little pecurality to show up, and in Safari of all places.

Any way, long story short, I think everything is working now, just let me know if you find anything else we might have missed!

26
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under General  |  No Comments
road construction

If things appear a little odd over the next 24 hours, it’s because I am finally installing a new theme on the site.  It’s been up a few times, but we keep finding little bugs.  So, just hang in there and all will be well soon… I hope!

26
Jun
2008

Herb Tarlek of WKRP The record industry is making me slam my head into the wall again.

Our friends at the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA), Society of Singers, Rhythm & Blues Foundation, Recording Academy and others make up a coalition named musicFIRST.  According to David Kravets at Wired, said coalition has decided that it is time that AM and FM radio stations stop getting a free-ride of playing music without compensation to the artists.

You see, for the past 80 years, radio stations have played all of the music you hear for free.  The musicFIRST has now determined this is the equivalent of piracy due to the fact that radio stations earn advertising revenue from the music.  The radio companies claim that it is not piracy due to their playing the music acts as a promotional tool for the recording industry.  Martin Machowsky, a spokesman for musicFirst, said, “Today we gifted them a can of herring, about their argument that they provide promotional value. We think that’s a red herring. Nobody listens to the radio for the commercials.”

This issues is due to be addressed by the United States House of Represnitives, and should it pass, the new law could cost the radio industry in the neighborhood of $7 billion dollars annually.  According to the National Association of Broadcasters (NAB), the AM-FM radio industry grosses $16 billion annually, so you are looking at nearly half of their annual revenue going to the recording industry.

If you hadn’t guessed, I’m against this.  Yes, the radio stations sell advertising and earn a revenue from the playing of the music, but it is no red herring that this is the single biggest promotional tool the recording industry has.  Why do you think bands focus so heavily on the songs they release as their singles?  They know those are what will be played on the airwaves and help sell their albums.

What gets under my skin is that the record industry obviously knows what a powerful promotional tool radio is due to the long history of “payola“.  For those unfamiliar with the term, this was a practice started in the 1950’s where DJs received bribes to play and promote certain songs by artists.  This practice was still well known to happen up through at least 2005, and I highly suspect that it still hasn’t disappeared completely.  If radio wasn’t such a useful entity to the record companies, why would they make these payouts to have certain songs played numerous times?

If radio stations are facing paying such enormous fees for the music, what makes the recording industry not think that stations won’t make tweaks to their format to lower the amount of music they play?  Changes to talk radio formats, playing of more music in the public domain, more remote broadcasts from paid sponsers, an increase in the number of ads verses number of songs played per hour and so on.

While small stations and public broadcast stations will pay a flat fee of $5,000 a year, this is still going to put a hurt on a lot of mid-sized stations.  They will either be faced with selling out to large conglomerates like Clear Channel Communications, or they will simply close their doors, lowering the number of promotional opportunities for an artist, and, in turn, lowering the amount of money the industry collects.

The system was not broken, and it certainly did not need fixing.  The recording industry can claim all day long this is about protecting the artists, but how have they survived for 80 years without this revenue stream? I don’t care how they try to disguise this, but it is just yet another move in the industries endless march of greed. They simply can not let any potential revenue stream set idle, they have to continue to milk every potential source of income they can, and damned the consquences.

This belongs in the pantheon of bad ideas, and all one can hope is that this will never make it out of committee in Congress, but there is every chance that it will.

For those who don’t know who Herb Tarlek is, he was the slimey station ad sales guy on WKRP in Cincinnati.

25
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Internet  |  No Comments

Message forum etiquette is one of those things that you could say seems to have disappeared over the years, but that would imply it ever existed.

Cries of “newb/n00b” whenever someone joins, insulting choices when one likes a piece of technology another member doesn’t, and on and on. Well, apparently I am not the only one who has ever found all of this to be silly as the guys over at Red Vs Blue put together a video of things you never read in forum posts.

If you don’t follow Red Vs. Blue, you won’t get a couple of those jokes (such as why the robot speaks Spanish and Caboose is… well… Caboose), but that doesn’t change that this may be the best thing ever said about the actions of people on the Internet.

As I have discussed several times before, the nastiness on the web seems to do nothing but get worse over time.  In particular, I have never understood the whole “newb” thing.  Like the people yelling about you being new to a forum weren’t also new at one time?  Were they somehow magically born with the knowledge of the forum, so they came into it knowing how to do everything?

One of the best comebacks I have heard to this was while playing an online game the other day.  Some people were mocking a “newb”, and a guy spoke up, saying to leave the new person alone.  Someone replied that they got mocked when they joined, so why shouldn’t they do it in turn?  The defender said, “Well, you know that you should mock all new people, but you don’t see me hitting my kids for not knowing how to do things.”

The newb got an apology from those mocking him.

Somehow I doubt we will ever see this age-old trend stop, but it sure would be nice.  So listen up the RvB guys… even they rant about Lost.

24
Jun
2008

christel gravlinMore teachers, more sex with students.

Christel C. Gravlin, a 33-year-old former teacher at the Lisbon Central School in New York, plead guilty in March to having a sexual encounter with a student in November 2007.  She and the 15-year-old were in a one to two week relationship, and she was charged with 3rd degree rape after telling other spectators at a high school football game about activities while drunk.

As she has been seeking counseling, the judge sentanced her to be marked as a Level 1 sexual offender, meaning she is not expected to repeat her offense.  She will serve no more than six months in prison and then follow that up with 10 years probation.

The married mother of two cited depression, alcohol, abuse of perscription drugs and pressure from the boy as her reason in a 3-page signed statement she gave when she confessed.

I certainly don’t defend her, but it is nice to see one finally confess with no fuss or muss, and just take her punishment.  Still sickens me, but at least it ended quickly.

julie prtichettOur second lucky contestant today is Julie Pritchett.  Ms. Pritchett, a 34-year-old married woman, was a teacher at the Clay-Chalksville Middle School in Alabama.

In February of this year, Mr. Pritchett struck up a sexual realtionship with a 15-year-old student.  It seems the teenager couldn’t satisfy her as she then used his membership on the baseball team to get her seven more lovers from amongst his teammates.

Yes… a total of 8 students.

Only two of the boys were 15, placing them under the legal age of consent in Alabama.  The other six were over the age 16, and they are refusing to cooperate with the police.  The whole scenario was revealed when one of the 15-year-olds told his parents about what was going on.  The investigation is ongoing as the police feel it is possible there may yet be undiscovered victims.  if convicted of the sexual laisons with the underage boys, she is facing up to 20 years in prison.

It was just back in March I posted about three female teachers in one day, all of them from the same general locale of Tampa, FL.  I don’t get this.  Why is it only female teachers?  Excuse my gender bias, but aren’t most jokes/worries about teachers having sex with students usually about male teachers with their female students?  I can’t remember the last time I heard of that scenario happening, is it just hidden better, or does it just never happen?  There’s no way to say for sure, but all I know is I that I don’t get it.

Why I have talked about five female in the span of three months.  Is this problem getting worse?  Is it just reported more?  Has this been happening for years, and just no one talked about it?  The idea that a teacher does this once is deplorable enough, but to do it with eight separate students is just mind-boggling to me.  At some point don’t you think you might finally say, “You know, this is really wrong of me,” instead of being all, “I am done with you, help me find another lover!”

Without knowing the details of their private lives, it is difficult to say what drove them to their actions, but does it really matter?  No, it doesn’t.  I hope they all enjoy their time in prison.

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Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under General  |  2 Comments

george carlinGeorge Carlin was never one to skirt controversy, but no one can ever deny he had a profound effect on comedy.  Not many comedians could claim that one of their routines, Seven Dirty Words in Mr. Carlin’s case, was turned into a definfing case on onscenity before the Supreme Court of the United States.

At many times he was seen as nothing more than a foul-mouthed gutter comedian, but he was so much more than that.  He had an unfaltering eye for seeing faults in society.  His rant about Stuff came years before the current astronomical credit card debtthe most American households carry.

When you look at the current crop of comedians that are popular, there simply are not any that hold a candle to his ability for insight.  This is not saying that there aren’t any good comedians, they just aren’t of his level.  It may even be a disservice to call him a comedian as what he did was more of a form of social commentary with a humorous edge to it.

I’m getting very tired of writing these eulogies as I have for Bo Diddley and Stan Winston, and yes, I chose to pass on Tim Russert, though I felt that was also a great loss.  I’m tired of losing so many greats in their fields, and that is exactly what it feels like.  All of the people that have died as of late have been pioneers and masters of their crafts, and all of them have been a horrible loss to their chosen professions.

Rest in peace, George, you have earned it.  I leave you with one of my favorite routines of his, Baseball vs Football.

22
Jun
2008

gene simmonsWhy is it that older bands such as Kiss and Metallica can’t accept that the record industry is changing to finally favor the fans?

In a recent interview with AOL, Gene Simmons had some strong words for the fans of music.

“The record industry is dead. It’s six feet underground and unfortunately the fans have done this. They’ve decided to download and file share. There is no record industry around so we’re going to wait until everybody settles down and becomes civilised. As soon as the record industry pops its head up we’ll record new material.”

Considering that Kiss has not released an album of new material in over nine years, somehow I highly doubt this has anything to do with the state of fans downloading music.  Sure does make a convenient excuse though for a drying up band, doesn’t it?

There was no direct quote for his feelings on Radiohead’s decision to release In Rainbows in a method that allowed fans to name their own price, but that is where my real bone of contention is with Mr. Simmons.  According to the above linked article, he said that this move by Radiohead was contributing to the demise of the record industry, and that his band (should they ever happen to record again - ed) would never follow suit.

I feel the correct wording of this would have been, “they are contributing to the demise of the recording industry as it once was.”  This would have been more spot on, and also less obvious of someone who has tied to the status quo.  All things in the world must grow and evolve, and it is time for the recording industry and artists to accept this.

Isn’t it interesting that the biggest detractors of the industry changing are acts such as Kiss and Metallica?   Bands that have sold tens of millions of albums?  Of course they don’t want it to change, they were able to play the system to their advantage, but what about the thousands of bands and artists that don’t have that luxury?  The bands that are getting no promotion from their labels, that still travel from gig to gig in a beat up van, lugging their own equipment around instead of an army of roadies?

Bands such as these two were once those guys, but they came in to the industry when there were less acts, and it was easier to get promotion.  There are far more acts out there nowadays, and they aren’t getting backing from their labels unless they get a huge hit, so it is up to them to promote themselves as best they can.   Yes, bands such as Radiohead and Nine Inch Nails are successes, and they have followed this model because they see the writing on the wall.  They can either embrace the fans in the place they are most comfortable, or they can hold on to the outdated, broken method of recording and distribution and earn nothing as they do truly turn to piracy.

radiohead thomWhat these bands has done is tell their fans they understand them and their desires, and under the current recording contracts, they truly aren’t losing much by giving their albums away because they are making up for it in goodwill.  These people will feel warmer feelings towards their favorite band, new fans will be introduced because they can try their musif for free in by a legal means, and really diehard fans wills till purchase the eventual commerical releases or the special gift packs they come out with.

Sure this new method of distribution may not be the perfect solution for everyone, but with constantly declining album sales, it is obvious the old one isn’t right for anyone.  Instead of complaining about what other bands have done to “destroy” the industry, why don’t you try to find some compromise that resides between the old and the new?  Discounted CDs if purchased online?  Exclusive bonus track(s) if purchased online? Day-and-date release of material online and in retail stores, but online is sold at a significant discount due to reduced costs of production?  There are ways to have your cake and eat it to with what is going on, but apparently Mr. Simmons is just too short sighted to see it, as are most of the old guard musicians.

Is piracy good?  At it’s heart, no, but it is necessitating a change in the industry, and one that was badly needed.  People such as Gene Simmons wouldn’t have their enermous mansions and toys without the fans who supported them for years, now that is the landscape is changing, these older bands don’t want to embrace the change.  The answer is simple: evolve or die.  In the case of Kiss, I think this has already happened, someone just forgot to tell them.  (Seriously… no new album for nine years because you want to punish the music industry for changing?  Riiiiiiiiiiight… I got a bridge in Brooklyn to sell ya if you believe that one.)

21
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Internet  |  1 Comment

online friendsAs part of the nature of the AnimeUSA business, we end up doing 26 conventions around the country each year. We go in, set up for the weekend, sell for 3 days, pack up and do it all over again.  As we currently work it, it is my parents who go out to the conventions as they both work for me, and I stay back at the office as I am the only one who knows how to work the websites.

On this particular weekend, that brought them within just a short drive of the diabolical Miss M that I mention from time-to-time here on the site.  See, this is the part about M I have not really ever pointed out to the readers of my site in that M and I have never met in person.  We met back in February of 2007 on a message board and hit it off in moments of the first time we talked.  Now, nearly a year and a half later, I actually consider M my best friend, but I tend not to discuss this because of the nature of how we met.  As if I don’t have enough strikes against me already with everyone thinking I’m a hermit!

Since they were in such close proximity to each other, M trekked over to the convention center and met up with my parents for dinner.  Mind you, M and I talk on the phone so frequently that she has talked to both of them just in the course of them answering the phone when I’m not around.  So, it wasn’t a completely cold meeting, but still odd that my parents have now met her in person while I still have not had the opportunity.

She and I have tried numerous times to meet up in person, but something inevitably gets in our way as adult responsibilities are want to do.  We think we finally have a safe date picked out for later this year, but we don’t want to jinx it, so I’ll just keep it to myself for now.

Why do I share all of this with you?  Well, I think it’s time people realize that as we live more of our lives online, that virtual friendships are going to become more common.  I have been on the Web since 1986, and have had many cyberspce only friendships over the years, but there seems to be a shift in them: while in the past they seemed to be only someone you would chat with on an aquitannce level, they seem to becoming more intense.  As we do everything online, from blogging like this, sharing videos on sites like YouTube, posting pictures on Flickr and so on, it is becomeing easier to let people become incorporated into your life, and the lines between virtual in real life friendships is blurring more and more.  All that is missing is that face-to-face element, but even that is disappearing with free video chatting capabilities being built into more applications.

Do I think will ever go completely virtual?  Of course not.  I think in 99.9% of cases, friendships forged in real life will always be tend to be stronger, but there will be the rare cases where friends made in an online environment can be as strong, if not stronger.  Sure there are chances for people to fib about themselves, be it their appearance or just making up facts about their life, but in general I think online cuts out some of the malarkey.  You don’t tend to hide as much because for the most part the person is faceless to you and it’s not worth exerting the effort to type it out.  There is also the chance to guard those parts of yourself you don’t want to share with others, but that is for everyone to judge personally if it is a positive or a negative aspect.

I will probably always prefer making friends in person, I can’t see that ever going away, but you do end up with those rare instances where you meet someone online that the only thing that really makes it different from a real life friendship is the distance.  Personally I find the distance interesting at times because it can allow you to get a taste of other cultures depending on where they are from.  I have had online friends from Mexico, England, Brazil, India, Japan and several other countries, and I have learned things about each of their cultures that I probably would have never known otherwise.  Not all of them were or are strong friendships, but it is still interesting to learn about how they view the world.  From M, I just learn how to formulate diabocal plans to take over the world… apparently it has a lot to do with designer shoes…

So what say all of you, dear readers?  Have you met any online friends you think will be life long friends?  Are they people you just “hang” with while your online?  Do you avoid talking with people online all together?  How do you say the nature of friendships changing in this digital age?

By the way, in case you were all wondering why she is simply known as “M”, well, if you were an evil genius, would you want everyone knowing your name?  Although, in her case, I know she just has managed to keep her name out of every search engine, so who am I to ruin her track record?

20
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Gadgets  |  No Comments

applecareWell, I just had my first encounter with Apple customer support, and I have to say I’m impressed.

After my hard drive failure a few weeks back, I had to put my iPod Touch apps back on the system, which I had luckily backed up.  Well, last night I had some issues with the Touch, so I did a reset, and went to sync the apps back onto it and… no luck.

I tried everything under the sun, and today I finally gave up and called them.  The first rep walked me through all the basics, staying with me on the phone the entire time.  After about 30-minutes he knew it was beyond him, and passed me up to a senior tech, Rick.  Rick spent about 15-minutes working on it before he determined he was also stumped.

This is where I got impressed.  Instead of just giving up, he said he was going to pass this up to an engineer, and that they would be calling sometime over the weekend, and if they didn’t, I was to call him directly.

What the…

All the way to an engineer?  A call back… on a weekend?

I had always heard how good their customer support is, and considering I bought this Touch used from someone else, I am even more impressed.  It may be that it can’t even be fixed due to the hard drive crash, and Rick was very blunt about that, but you can’t fault them for their effort and concern in this manner.  Major kudos to them.

19
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under toys  |  No Comments

I’ve said it before, but I am not big on building posts around YouTube videos, about JL over at Little Lost Robot posted this today, and I had to share. Reasons after the video.

Back when I had my retail store front, we ended up in a never-ending Nerf war. We had Nerf guns hidden behind racks, under the desks, on top of top shelves… we had Nerf weapons everywhere. When we had an exceptionally bad day, someone would scream “NERF WAR!” and we would all dive for the closest weapon and open up on each other. Yes… sometimes with customers in the store.

While we never had anything at the store to quite rival this video, there was the time I get set loose in the Nerf showroom in New York City. I was attending Toy Fair for one of my magazine jobs, and though Nerf wasn’t something I wrote about, Hasbro was giving me the complete tour anyway.  In the Nerf room they had target ranges set up, every imaginable weapon set out, and buckets of spare ammo strewn around the room.  You were encouraged to just pick up guns and start shooting as you toured the room… I did… so did my tour guide… and my mother.  Nothing like a Nerf fight with unlimited ammo.

All that said… I love this video.

19
Jun
2008

summer_mash_seattleWell, it’s just been settled and I will be attending my first, and possibly only,  Mashable party.  For those of you in the tech world, make sure to mark your calendars for July 12th for Summer Mash Seattle.

Besides myself, boss man Pete Cashmore and Karen Hartline will be in attendance, so no need to worry about just talking to “the list guy” all night with nothing else going on.  “This one time, I wrote a list, and it had over 120 items on it!  Why are you falling asleep?”

When: July 12th, Saturday, 7:00 - 10:00 PM
Where: Showbox SoDo, 1700 1st Avenue South, Seattle, WA 98134
What else?:DJ El Toro, Light Appetizers, Drink Tickets, Door Prizes and more…
RSVP?: Tickets will be released through Eventbrite, 21+ Only
Socialize: Facebook, MySpace, Meetup and Upcoming

18
Jun
2008
Written by Sean P Aune  |  under Movies  |  No Comments

AFIs 10 Top 10 ListsI swear the American Film Institute has become obsessed with lists.  This is all well and good, but the newest ones are just a bit much as they are broken down by the tops in genres.

Called, “AFI’s 10 Top 10“, the lists are generally well balanced.  I’m not going to get nitpicky with them, there are several I would reshuffle, a few movies would be eliminated, but two lists in particular annoyed me: Animation and Fantasy.

The Fantasy list is easy in that I can’t believe Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring came in above classics like It’s A Wonderful Life and Miracle on 34th Street.  True, these are sentimental favorites, but I also feel they are stronger films, but I guess it is all “in the eye-of-the-beholder” kind of thing, but still seems wrong to me.

The Animation list is where my ire really got up.  Let’s forget that 8 of the 10 spots are Disney films, fine, they are are mostly classics, but it’s the fact that Ralph Bakshi is completely overlooked.  Mr. Bakshi may not be a household name, but he has influenced countless animators with his works such as Fritz the Cat and American Pop.

Yes, his work is decidely for a mature audience, but he is such an important part of the animation history of the United States, and fluff such as Shrek makes the list of a group who is supposed to honor the best of American filmmaking… it’s a travesty.  Yes, it is a strong word, and it is just a stupid list, but it is saddening to see him not on the list when he worked so hard to show the world that animation didn’t have to be cute and full of talking animals.

Mr. Bakshi is still alive, but he is effectively retired due to the debacle that was Cool World, where he lost all faith in the studio system.  Maybe someday he will finally be recognized for his contributions to animation.

17
Jun
2008

StarterTech.comI’ve never been horribly comfortable with self-promotion, but sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and do it. With that being said, I would like to introduce you to my newest time consuming project, StarterTech.com.

This is a new blog which, as the tag line implies, tries to simplify technology so that anyone can understand it. The new project was born out of my own mother’s problems with trying to educate my 60-year-old father about technology, and her constant exasperations with him. She finally asked me one day if there was a blog that did nothing but explain various aspects of technology as simply as possible, I said I didn’t think so, and thus StarterTech was born.

Technology is something I have always been passionate about, but I don’t think it is nearly as all inclusive as it could be, and those of us who live with it everyday sometimes forget that people don’t just “know” all of the ins-and-outs of it. I learned several years ago to try to take a much more patient approach to teaching people about technology when I taught an adult education night course in computer basics. I had agreed to do it because a friend asked me, and it really opened my eyes to the fact that -gasp- not every one is computer savvy or a tech geek! After a few false steps, it really gave me a sense of satisfaction to convey my love of tech, and what it can do for us, to people that were just learning, no matter what their age.

I am hoping to do the same with StarterTech, just with a broader audience. And, no, it is not lost on me that people have to know how to use a search engine to find me, but there is not much I can do to teach them before they even find me. This is part of the reason I am trying to write the simplest headlines and phrases I can in the hopes it will aid them in locating the site.

While it is done in a blog format, I am trying to make it so people who go to a search engine and look for an answer to their problem won’t have any trouble finding it. Yes, it is being written in a normal chronological fashion, but it is much more about being a reference site and trying to explain how to do things on the web, as well as explaining basic concepts.

The first article went up on April 12th, so I am still trying to get the body of work up to speed, and right now I am trying to cover very basic ideas that will be referred back to numerous times, such as What Is Social Networking?, How To Pick A Password and even things like Web 101 Guide To Acronyms.

I am actually fairly excited about this project, and I plan on getting guest bloggers in to do articles about fields I don’t understand myself, such as capturing video from your TV. This is very much not just online tech, but all technology.

So, please stop by the site, or sign up for the RSS feed, and join me as I lose my mind as I add yet another project to the 5,000 things I already do! And to all my tech-guru type friends out there who will probably laugh at me, why not drop me an email or comment about guest blogging on a subject near and dear to your heart?